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Vetted: To join this list, fill out the application below. No sponsor needed. This list has links for all our public events, as well as some private events such as our Hangouts. Please do not be aggressive about asking to be put on our private list—this will have the opposite effect. Take your time and get to know the community.
Private: For this list, you need to have an existing member sponsor you. You can fill out the application below and list them as a sponsor. We'll email them to double check. If you're already on the email vetted list, have a member email membership@hitmeupnyc.com to vouch for you. This list receives invites to both our public and our more intimate events.
In order to manage our vetted community and maintain a safer space, Hit Me Up has three levels of email list. All membership levels are completely free and only for vetting.
If you are applying for vetted membership, or need to be sponsored for private membership, please ensure you have submitted details at least 1 week PRIOR to the event date you are aiming to attend. The sooner the better. Otherwise, we cannot guarantee your application will be looked at. For inquiries, reach out to membership@hitmeupnyc.com. Please wait to buy your ticket until your application has been approved.
Public: Anyone can sign up for this list on our website. It includes links for all of our public events. Sign up here.
