Weirder. Safer. Sexier.

NYC’s Premier Space for ENM and Kink

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DJ at HMU event
Top and bottom during HMU event
Butt squeeze
Aerial performance
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Contortionist performance
HMU Co-Founder
Consensual biting
Biting off a glove
Close embrace
Spanking with keyboard

Hit Me Up is New York City’s curated community for poly and kink. We run mixers, classes, parties, and more from our venue in Lower Manhattan. We also teach kink and run events with our partners at House of Yes, Our Wicked Lady, Red Pavilion, Torture Garden and other venues and collaborators around the city.

Membership is free. Applications are purely for safety, and community vetting.

Safe is Sexy

From enthusiastic consent policies, to guardian training and beyond, we believe that safety is the sexiest thing to offer.

Events

Mixers, hangouts, dance parties, classes, and more!

Venue

That’s right — we have our own home!

@hitmeupnycity

That’s right — we’ve got a mixer for ya’ll as Pride Month comes to a close. This event is open to the public and you *don’t* have to be a Hit Me Up member to attend — but you might want to be after the party 😉 He
Ready for R0pe? Here are our June offerings, courtesy of @sydonarogue and @trixielapointe. 🔗 in our profile!
Okay, we get it, you like the sharps 🪡 Want to make sure you don't miss out on the next class like this? Head to the link in our bio to subscribe to our mailing list — that way you'll be the first to know about all of our Academy classes!
It's Pride Month — so get some *very gay* items at our Er0t!c Pride Bazaar with @gayoddities ! Free RSVP link in our bio.
It's not as hard as you think, but it's not as easy as you think. 🔗 in our profile!
Still trying to figure out what you're going to wear to PlayDay? Here's a little moodboard. BTW: There's only a few tickets left. Check your email. 😘
Learn how to bring you're fantasies to life. Head to our bio to get your tickets now!
Calling all (vetted) BOTTOMS! Get ready for our cozy movie night on Thursday, May 23rd. You know where to get your tickets 🥰
Whether you're a seasoned f3tishist, a budding rubber enthusiast, or a curious k!nkster, join @knotashanyc for a latex intensive followed by a f3tish wear mixer! Head to the link in our bio for tickest. UPCOMING EVENTS 📅 May 9: HMU Academy: Trauma
Has unresolved trauma or old attachment wounds come up through your ENM and k!nk journey? Join us for a workshop by @orit.krug to learn how to calm your nervous system and curate emotional safety. Head to the link in our bio to learn more.
We're gearing up for the one year anniversary of our venue! Have you gotten your tickets for Saturday yet? 💥 UPCOMING EVENTS 💥 📅 May 4: Play (PRIVATE LIST) 📅 May 7: Tie Me Down: Ropes 101 with @trixielapointe 📅 May 9: HMU Academy: Trauma-In
Our community is so cute! Some shots from our mixer with @open.social