
Weirder. Safer. Sexier.
NYCβs Premier Space for ENM and Kink












Hit Me Up is New York Cityβs curated community for poly and kink. We run mixers, classes, parties, and more from our venue in Lower Manhattan. We also teach kink and run events with our partners at House of Yes, Our Wicked Lady, Red Pavilion, Torture Garden and other venues and collaborators around the city.
Membership is free. Applications are purely for safety, and community vetting.
Safe is Sexy
From enthusiastic consent policies, to guardian training and beyond, we believe that safety is the sexiest thing to offer.
Events
Mixers, hangouts, dance parties, classes, and more!
Venue
Thatβs right β we have our own home!
@hitmeupnycity